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Sex has been around forever, but there still seems to be a never ending curiosity about it. Because it is human nature, it is also logical that we humans must be constantly thinking and thinking about it. Are we all doing If yes, how often? Are we doing it correctly? What else is there to try? Is everyone having a type of sex that I'm not? The good news is that as long as it is safe, secure and healthy, you are good.
Part of the beauty of sex is that it is very subjective. Just because a person prefers BDSM-style sex, it does not mean that other people cannot enjoy vanilla sex. You can always develop your sexual taste and qualities, and that is what makes it great. Experimentation is part of a sexual being. To help ensure that your bedroom action is as enjoyable as possible, here are 85 of the best sex tips to come out of Cosmo. 1. Masturbate every morning. What better way to get in contact with you than to make it an orgasm part of your daily self-care routine? Try masturbating every morning for a month and see what it does for your sex life. Our bet? Good things. 2. Dry hump excess. Dry humming can be thought of as a strange juvenile activity from you old high school days, but as an author has discovered, dry humming as an adult really slaps (or rather, grinds?). The excitement is on point, it's not very direct when you have a highly sensitive clitoris, and the warmth of keeping your clothes on and still clinging on to each other is a mental twist. 3. Try a cock ring. If your partner has a penis, a penis or cock ring can actually do something that is already good. By restricting blood flow to the penis, the ring makes their erection harder and stronger (also helpful if they end too quickly or have issues of staying hard). And yes, there are a lot of vibrating cock rings that can also make orgasming easier for you. This is a win. 4. Pay more attention to your routine "Aftercare" is a common BDSM thing, where each partner takes time to check in with each other and take care of each other after sex. This is especially important in BDSM where each person can experiment with different dynamics in deeper scenes that do not reflect how each person actually thinks about their partner. But this does not mean that you cannot do it even after working in vanilla sex. Later take time to check in with your partner and drink or give a glass of water, and confirm your care for each other. 5. Watch a sexy show together. Turn on the Witcher or Outlander and let the steamy scenes affect how you spend your night. 6. Try a sex game. You do not need to buy a single one. There are many sex games that you can play with a partner that won't turn on both of you, this would require a board or separate card deck. Just two ready participants are having a great time. 7. Try a nipple clamp. They are cheap, do not take up too much space, and nipple clamps can only be enjoyable with or without a companion. 8. Invest in some secret BDSM jewelery There is luxury and then there is luxury. If you are bored of spending money in general, then ball out and get some bogie bondage jewelry, such as this Fahnesi Kiki de Montparnasse handcuff set that looks like a very luxurious bracelet, to the average person. This will be your little secret. 9. Try Remote Control Vibrator Whether you are handing over the reins to your partner to drive or just fiddling with the buttons on your vibrator as you are about to reach the peak, remote controlled vibes are everywhere nowadays and make masturbation easier . When you try it, you will be surprised how you ever lived without one. 10. Try to kneel in front of your partner, rather than in front of them. If you usually kneel in front of your partner during a blow job, try kneeling next to them. Not only will you give them a great view of your ass, you can make it more comfortable and easier for you (or them) to stimulate your clit while you are giving it your all. 11. Try Sacral Massage If you are going to experiment with the anus, then anal foreplay is a must. For 15-20 minutes try massaging the area just above the butt crack, giving or receiving sacral massage. This will help release tension and loosen the entire area. 12. Don't be afraid to start! If your partner is usually intrested by sex, switch things off by showing how much they turn you on and flip the switch so that you turn things off first. Everyone likes to feel like their partner just can't resist them. 13. Bend in your sexual tension. Just because you have been with your partner forever does not mean that you still cannot find butterflies for them. At first glance they should avoid jumping to their bones like you normally do, and allow sexual tension to increase so that you can have an even greater orgasm. 14. Add CBD to the mixture. There are plenty of CBD products for everything, and sex is no exception. Choose the poison of whichever CBD lubricant or erotic gel of your choice and make the city feel all loose-kneed (reducing the paranoia that comes with THC). 15. Hand work is the main event. Sex is so much more than just penetrating sex, and retreating and focusing on foreplay with the same intensity as you do PIV sex can create some warmth in your routine. Related story 16. Do yourself normally, only with ben wa balls inside you. Ben wa balls, or kegel balls, are small weight balls that you can insert into your vagina for extra stimulation. Pop in a pair and go about your normal routine. The extra attention you are paying on each roll and the swinging of your hips will change you throughout the day. 17. Forgive and forget with some super-salt makeup sex. All couples fight (this is a part of a healthy relationship for disagreement) but what better way to get in good grip of each other again with some weak, gentle make-up sex? If that is not your vibe, then you too have to have sex standing against the wall for an extra layer. Either way, there is a sexy way to proceed after a fight. 18. Get some cheap accessories to improve shower sex. Shower sex in movies can be steamy and sexy, but IRL, it doesn't happen often. If your mind is worrying about whether you are about to slip or not and you are feeling cold because there is no water on you at that time, you cannot really enjoy the maximum potential! Thankfully, there are easy (and mostly cheap!) Solutions that can make shower sex methods more enjoyable. 19. Heat things up with some home gym equipment. Don't worry, you don't need your actual gym's super-expensive rowing machine to do any of these things. When you lift your partner up on your hips, you lie down on your hips for a sex position, which will leave the missionary with a hunch. 20. Use Tanga Eggs for a quick, modified blow job sleeve. The eggs are hella cute (literally they look like little Easter eggs) and compact so that you can bring them to your boo house without worrying that 65% of your overnight bag is just a toy. Push the top up so the two open at the bottom (it comes with one there) and the top, and use that with a section of smoothness for a really out-of-the-world blowjob experience that is very Tries for you. 21. Have your partner tried the keywin method. For those who enjoy a woman, this oral sex technique is going to be given on your behalf instead of facing the person. Annabelle Knight, the sex expert at Lovehoney, states that instead of licking your cunt up and down, your partner should be moved aside and straightened across the clitoral hood for an orgasm feeling. 22. Go to the top. The woman at the top provides easier access to your vulva and clitoris than other positions. Add a vibrator to the mix for even more enjoyment. 23. Make a masturbation playlist. Taking time to focus on your enjoyment and indulging in your ~ my time is not only fun, it can also lead to better sex with a partner as you are learning more about your body. There is no easier way to find out what you like in bed than to actually try. 24. Use lubricants. Seriously, enough of the stigma that greasy drying is for older women. You cannot win extra points by not using it and having sex which can be a lot more attractive and enjoyable for both partners. Start with a dime-size amount, place it on yourself and your partner's genitals, and reapply as needed. 25. Keep your desire on the ramp all day by engaging in some light intercourse at work. Foreplay shouldn't be in person only. If you've got a date later that night, try sending some flirty or suggestive text on your partner's way to make sure they are thinking about you all day. 26. Try Amazon Sex Status. Or any wild sex position. Sex is as much mental as it is physical, and trying to try and empower adventurous situations can pave the way for you more than you think. 27. Don't be afraid to spread your labia. Make sure your partner has easy access to your clitoris by actually getting there and setting the scene for them. Sure, light vulva licking is great, but why risk wasting time and losing your partner there? 28. Try a vibrator with sound waves. Your clitoris is like an iceberg. The part you can see is a small part of it. Beneath the visible part are nerve endings that you cannot see or touch. Using a vibrator with sonic pulses (a loud, fast-moving speaker that shakes your entire body in a club) can help target these nerves and accompany you with otherwise obscure parts of your touch ~ Can put in touch. 29. Dig eye contact in reverse cowgirl. While you definitely have your moments of having sex face-to-face, change it from getting on top and away from your partner. From here, you have complete freedom to create whatever O-Face you want, and you can put it on a show for them at the same time with your bouncing butt. You have multitudes. 30. Work on your non-sexual touch. While this tip is more about putting it to work when you are not having sex, it can lead to a completely better sex life. Do not touch only when you are naked. Find a way to work in PG by jerking hair, rubbing backwards, holding hands, anything that encourages you and your partner to show physical affection for each other. You will learn about each other's body in such a way that it is much deeper than just sex. 31. Area on the upper left hand quadrant of your clitoris. Megan Andeloux, executive director of the Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health, says that many women feel this is the most receptive part of their clit. 32. Try a sex game where you trade. Rachel Wright, a licensed psychiatrist, sex therapist and sex educator, suggests "stop and start." You set a timer on your phone for four minutes (ranging from kissing to orgasm) where you have that amount of time to do anything for your partner. When time runs out, you switch locations and the donor becomes the receiver, and vice versa. This is great for emphasizing foreplay. 33. Do it in front of a mirror. Doggy style intercourse in front of the full-length mirror gives you one of the best seats in the house. You can close the eyes tenderly in the mirror or go all in with corn thrusting, examining each other simultaneously. I liked it. 34. Get a pair of nipple clamps. Nipple clamps are great because they can provide hands-free stimulation during sex. Slap a pair and your hands are free to still touch themselves during foreplay or sex. As you reach the climax, you can adjust the intensity as well. 35. Make oral sex a priority. Some nights where the main focus is not wandering sex, but just you getting oral sex. Communicate with your partner so that both of you know what is best for you in terms of giving and receiving. And when we say a few nights, we mean a few nights. Putting a lot more pressure on both of you than changing the oral life in your life through one night. 36. The real thing: roughly 70 percent of women need more clitoral stimulation o during sex - so reach down and touch yourself during work! You feel in control of your O, and she is super on. Advantage Deals. 37. For a turn on the missionary, lie on your back, and raise your legs up and over one side as he enters you. Elevating your legs makes you superset, and the angle of your hips means that he will hit spots that rarely get TLC. 38. Leave it to the inside and out loud and uh, stir with her penis. It will excite every inch of you (the speed of the sea and all that…). 39. Sit on the edge of the washing machine, and wrap your legs around his waist as he enters you. 40. In reverse-cowgirl, bend backward (rather than forward toward her feet). This is a primo G-spot angle for you and Kardashi-donkey's illusion for that. 41. No. 1 rule for a great blow job: use your mouth (obvs!) And your hands. Take the head into your mouth, and lick and rotate like you would a soft-serve cone. Meaning, use your hands to hold, squeeze and stroke the length of his penis. Do not maintain the same speed - diversity of sensation is important! 42. Instead of pleasing each other simultaneously during 69 (so hard to concentrate!), Take turns. One person goes to town, while another groans and realizes how good it feels. 43. When he is giving you oral, put a finger or two in it and stroke your G-spot with an incoming motion. Internal and external stimulation increases your work opportunities. 44. Smoothness! Both you and your partner, before and / or during naughty. About 50 percent of women say that smoothness eases orgasm. And forget the myth that this is only for older women - all the cool kids are doing! 45. If you don't have a clue whether your partner's dirty-talk meter is set to be "a little naughty" or "downright dirty", do a sneaky little test. Ask, "What would you like me to do? Details, please." And see what words he uses and how he is ready to receive. Then follow his lead. 46. Usually get oral with your legs spread? Sharpen your O by pulling your legs straight out, stimulating the pelvic muscles you use at the climax. This is a crazy-cool new sensation. 47. Gently hold her face still, tell her to stop moving, and let her get your kiss for just one minute. In this way, you will know how to kiss you back whether it is slow or hot and heavy. 48. Vintage Cosmo Tip, June 1972: "All women should strive for a little more variety ... a bit more shock value. Be placed on the wig. Or wish your man the best at the door with a martini in his hand and nothing on the heels." " 49. Just started dating? Set an example and make sure you come first. Women often pay attention to their boy's orgasm and understand themselves later. Since we are all creatures of habit, the reverse stops paying in the long run. 50. Ask him to locate his tongue on your thin-skinned places: the wrist, your knees, behind your ears. It will make you shiver. 51. While standing with your back against her chest, reach around her and touch you so that you can see that all her hands are on you. Totally sexy. 52. Wrap your fingers in an "O" shape around the base of its shaft, and mix them with your mouth. Use lots of saliva to reduce movement, and she won't be able to tell where your mouth ends and your hand starts. Gently cook your balls with your other hand and you are golden. 53. Try the "commercial sex" game. Start getting it during the commercials for your favorite show, then as soon as the show returns. Sexy show? Copy their tricks. As you graduate from makeout to oral to orgasm (and back?), The teasing will spiral out of control. 54. Put on your dress or just push your underwear aside to have sex. The warmth of having clothes is hot - like you can't wait for each other. 55. The hole at the tip of their penis is called meat, which is the worst name given to anything. Meat But it is sensitive during stimulation. With your tongue, apply moderate pressure on and off. He will be shocked how good it looks! 56. When you are close to climaxing, tighten and relax as if you are kegalling. This alone can sometimes trigger an O (and it sounds amazing for a man too). 57. The shower is designed for agility. When you are talking to him from behind, the ideal position for you is to bend aiming the showerhead at your hot spot. Any removable showerhead? Slap your fingers with the shower gel, and reach around it and give you some digital pleasure. 58. Create a secret code that translates to sextime. Maybe "I get a dirty martini" means "let's blow this joint ... and then each other." 59. Remind yourself how much you turn it on. Seeing his face lost in ecstasy - and realizing that you are doing it - can be the push you need to cross the finish line. 60. Touch yourself - under your bath jet. When watching a scandal, do whatever works for you - to know what sensations are there for you. Are you in counterclockwise clitoral stroke? Nipple stimulation? Find out - then bring your favorite moves to your next sex session. 61. Advanced blow-job trick: As you roll your mouth up and down, twist your hand like you're tracing a corkscrew's groove, and every time you get it, slide it over your tip. He will worship you. 62. Want more verbal and less jackhammer, but can't seem to say so? Start with a sext. Type "throw a kiss in the emoji," I can't stop thinking about my mouth tonight, and hit the message. Message will be received. 63. Bring the bullet vibrator to bed. The rabbit gets all the glory, but using the bullet vibe on your clit while dogging is a total game changer. 64. Pleasing him with your mouth, bring your hand down to touch you. Cover her fingers with you so that you can make sure her touches are exactly the way you need to climax. This will make you even more excited that you control his antics. 65. Lead with a compliment. Say "I love you the way you are ..." before suggesting a new trick ("I would like it a lot if you used your fingers like this"). 66. Turn on the teasing factor by letting him enter a hot second, then go straight to the foreplay of your choice. Think of it as giving a taste of the main course during cocktail hour. This will leave him hungry - no, saliva - for more. 67. Have sex on mind by reading steamy book before date. During the deed you will feel more erotic as you imagine a hot story line. And she never has to know! 68. Have your boy press down a "menu" of the top three moves that drive him crazy, and you do the same. Then the swap list, and the goods a la carte serves! 69. Perfect your striptease. Stage an entrance from the other room, do a sensual stroll around it, and gently flush a slip to reveal a corset. (Or a thong and nipple tassels! Whatever your jam is.) By the time you finally have it straggled, the two of you will be distraught to go. PS Leave it on your heel for extra sass. 70. It is wonderful for him to change hot and cold sensations during oral. If you're not into ol 'ice-cube-in-the-cheek trick, try orally with some cold or hot drink. Even easier: After placing it in your mouth, pour light air over it. 71. Vintage Cosmo Tip, March 1989: "Unleash your imagination: You can drive like teenage girls of local lovers or swap houses with a friend and make love in her bedroom." Sexual Health News 72. A great approach to achieving some double enjoyment? A vibrating penis. You will enjoy a soft vibration on your shaft when you receive bonus targeted clitoral stimulation with each of your thrusts. It also helps people achieve fuller, harder erections. 73. long distance? Send him a care package for your… package. Fill a box with some sexy new lingerie, smoothies and maybe a sex toy, and send it to your front door with the note: "We'll need it on our next trip." 74. Not having "permission" to make any noise during sex can be a huge turn, especially when something feels good, you want to express it! Try it for a spin: stuff your thong or its tie in your mouth, then do the dirty, dirty work until it digs its nails into your palms and puts it out to take out that gag. 75 is to kiss a great pair every day to get in the habit. This removes the dangerous roommate effect, especially if you live together and have been spending more time working together than recently checking each other out. 76. Being busy in a public place is a big risk, doubling the wattage of your hot equipment. Your best bet to pull it off is to keep your clothes on (wear a skirt and no undies for easy access) and do it in a place where you hear the sound of someone coming, such as a In the middle of the ladder - the stairs on the feet will land you that it is time to move before you get caught. 77. Cherry on top when it comes to an amazing BJ? eye contact. Give an eyelid or some smiley action, and put putty in your… mouth. 78. Put a pillow or two under your hip to raise your hips high during missionary sex - and increase the odds of hitting your G-spot. It will change your life, we swear. 79. For women only: Lay your partner on her side, hinge yourself on her elbow, and spread one of her legs so that your clits rub together, all while making eye contact. grind on. A classic scissor for a reason. 80. Vintage Cosmo Tip, October 2002: "Check your barriers at the door, and see each other as you touch." Sexual Health News - 81. Lest we (and he) forget, the clitoris spreads our labia in the shape of a wishbone. So he must lick or stroke the labia - not just the clit - while he is down there. Hello! 82. After a shower, bring him to pick you up from behind, bending over the bathroom sink, and looking at his hot, wet self in the fogged-up mirror. You will all get a front row scene for seriously hot action and none of the stress of filming it. good! 83. Ask him first, but if he gives you the green light, place a small vibrator under his shaft or on his perineum. This is the super nerve-packed area that lies between his balls and his butt - while you are going down on him. Start the action off with the lowest setting of your vibe and then gradually increase the intensity as his excitement increases. 84. Rotate from girl-on-top position to reverse-cowgirl. Take your time - you will avoid any crazy mishaps, plus a slo-mo approach just seems so erotic. Not only are you hitting a series of new hot spots for both of you from every different angle, but it will dig a 360-degree view of your gorgeous body. 85. Bored of the same old sexes? Been there Try to keep it simple. The most likely text you can send is: "I need you now." A version of this story was published in the November issue of Cosmopolitan as "Cosmo's 50 Best Sex Tips Ever". Select the November 2015 issue on Newsstand or click here to subscribe to the digital edition! |
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